Married to Eli Brewer around 1852.

Eli and Mary were the parents of:
George Brewer(1854-unk)
Thomas Brewer(1856-unk)
John William Brewer

Married to David Lawrence Stedman on September 13, 1864 in Chatham County, North Carolina.

David and Mary were the parents of:
Charles James Stedman
Edward Everett Stedman
Joseph J Stedman(1869-unk)
Sarah Stedman(1871-unk)
Fred Stedman
Allison V Stedman
Franklin Stedman
Margaret Virginia Stedman Kelly
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North Carolina, County Marriages, 1762-1979
Name D L Stedman
Event Type Marriage
Event Date 13 Sep 1864
Event Place Chatham, North Carolina
Spouse's Name Mary Brewer
Digital Folder Number 004639056

1870 United States Federal Census
Name: Mary Stedman
Age in 1870: 36
Birth Year: abt 1834
Birthplace: North Carolina
Home in 1870: Oakland, Chatham, North Carolina
Race: White
Gender: Female
Post Office: Grove
Household Members:
Name Age
Dawud Stedman 56
Mary Stedman 36
Thomas Stedman 14
William Stedman 12
George Stedman 16
Charles Stedman 6
Edward Stedman 4
Joseph Stedman 4/12

1880 United States Federal Census
Name: Mary Stedman
Age: 42
Birth Year: abt 1838
Birthplace: North Carolina
Home in 1880: Cape Fear, Chatham, North Carolina
Race: White
Gender: Female
Relation to Head of House: Wife
Marital Status: Married
Spouse's Name: David Stedman
Father's Birthplace: North Carolina
Mother's Birthplace: North Carolina
Occupation: Keeps House
Household Members:
Name Age
David Stedman 44
Mary Stedman 42
Edward E. Stedman 13
Joseph J. Stedman 11
Sarah Stedman 9
Fred Stedman 6
Alison Stedman 4
Franklin Stedman 2

1900 United States Federal Census
Name: Mary Steadman
Age: 63
Birth Date: Apr 1837
Birthplace: North Carolina
Home in 1900: Cape Fear, Moore, North Carolina
Race: White
Gender: Female
Relation to Head of House: Wife
Marital Status: Married
Spouse's Name: David Steadman
Marriage Year: 1864
Years Married: 36
Father's Birthplace: North Carolina
Mother's Birthplace: North Carolina
Mother: number of living children: 11
Mother: How many children: 13
Household Members:
Name Age
David Steadman 61
Mary Steadman 63
Maggie Steadman 18
Tom Dalrympel 17

1910 United States Federal Census
Name: Mary Steadman
Age in 1910: 73
Birth Year: abt 1837
Birthplace: North Carolina
Home in 1910: Johnson, Lee, North Carolina
Race: White
Gender: Female
Relation to Head of House: Wife
Marital Status: Married
Spouse's Name: David L Steadman
Father's Birthplace: North Carolina
Mother's Birthplace: North Carolina
Native Tongue: English
Occupation: House Keeper
Industry: At Home
Able to Read: Yes
Able to Write: No
Years Married: 45
Number of Children Born: 13
Number of Children Living: 12
Household Members:
Name Age
David L Steadman 71
Mary Steadman 73

1920 United States Federal Census
Name: Mary E Stedman
Age: 83
Birth Year: abt 1837
Birthplace: North Carolina
Home in 1920: Jonesboro, Lee, North Carolina
Street: Lemon Spring Road
Race: White
Gender: Female
Relation to Head of House: Mother-in-law
Marital Status: Widowed
Father's Birthplace: North Carolina
Mother's Birthplace: North Carolina
Able to Speak English: Yes
Household Members:
Name Age
Alton R Kelley 44
Maragret Kelley 38
Paul Kelley 16
Lewar Kelley 10
Sheldon Kelley 8
Lawerence Kelley 6
Maragret Kelley 2
Mary E Stedman 83

North Carolina Death Certificates, 1909-1975
Name: Mrs Mary Elizabeth Stedman
Gender: Female
Race: White
Age: 87
Marital status: Married
Occupation: Housewife
Birth Date: 18 Feb 1837
Birth Place: Chatham
Death Date: 3 May 1924
Death Location: Jonesboro, Lee
Spouse's Name: D L Stedman
Father's Name: Unknown
Mother's Name: Margaret Mc Leona
Cause of death: Cerebral hemorrhage
Informant: Fred S Stedman, Bennett NC