Lois Catharine Barley, 95, of York, Pennsylvania, passed away peacefully at Pappus House in York on July 13, 2023, among flowers, pictures from home, and family. Lois was born on April 4, 1928, at her parents' home on East King Street in York. When Lois was six years-old she and her parents Catharine and Philip Householder moved to the Canal Zone, where her dad worked on U.S. Navy ships and freighters traversing the Panama Canal. Lois spent her childhood through high school years in Panama, graduating in 1946. Her memories included learning to swing dance, attending her high school dances, and going to movies. She also loved to play cards. When her family returned to York, Lois went to college at the New Jersey Women's College, now part of Rutgers University, and earned her Bachelor of Letters, Advertising and Public Relations (Journalism) degree.
Lois was accomplished in archery and enjoyed various levels of competition as a young woman. She also loved ice skating and was an avid reader her whole life. She would often startle people who asked her what she was reading when she showed them a book from the horror genre. She used her college degree at several jobs with York area businesses and later in her marriage, writing newsletters and articles for her husband's business publications. She loved butterflies and had a deep and abiding love for plants, flowers, and gardening of all kinds. She loved raising plants from cuttings, which she was pleased to share with others. Lois was a longtime member of the Shiloh Garden Club and competed in flower and garden shows for years, collecting a raft of blue ribbons and Best of Show honors. She passed on her fascination with plants to her children by enrolling them in the Shiloh Junior Garden Club.
Lois was a proud member of the York County Historical Society (Heritage Trust) and visited events or expositions once or twice a year. She enjoyed book sales and was a volunteer for many years at the York Hospital Auxiliary Book Nook. She also volunteered at church sales and benefits at Christmas time and would wrap gifts for nursing home residents. One of her fondest yearly traditions was going to the York Fair. She loved to travel to different historical and notable places, with one of her favorite destinations being Longwood Gardens, especially during the spring and then again in December. She also enjoyed Hershey Gardens, most notably the butterfly house. Later in life, she belonged to the Women's Crochet Circle at the Church of the Open Door in Shiloh, where she crocheted and donated many items, including baby blankets.
Lois married Joseph Barley of York in 1955. Lois and Joe celebrated their 55th wedding anniversary before his passing. The couple had three sons; Eric, Barron, and Karl, all of York. She often said her greatest source of pride was her family. Two of her specialty foods she made for the boys were baked spaghetti and a special family recipe for German macaroni salad. She also liked to make old fashioned pastel mint candies. She loved celebrating birthdays, holidays, eating out, admiring Christmas lights and decorations, firework displays, and taking car rides and vacation time with family members and friends. Lois is survived by her three children and their spouses; Hilary, Karen and Donna, respectively, five grandchildren and four great grandchildren. Lois will be remembered as a mother, grandmother and great grandmother who loved unconditionally, and supported her children's and grandchildren's dreams wholeheartedly. Her humor, intellect, zest for life (and sometimes sassiness) will leave a lasting impression on all who knew her.
The family would like to thank several important people in Lois's life in the last few years. First, Zachary Miller of WellSpan Rehabilitation on Bannister Street in York. Zach, your patience and devotion gave her mobility, and quality time with her family, which she otherwise wouldn't have had. She loved you, and we thank you. Also, Shay, her visiting caretaker; thank you for your patience and care with her. She simply couldn't replace you.
For the last 14 days we were at UPMC and would like to acknowledge the exceptional staff we met from the ER, 3rd floor, ICU, and the 4th floor.
Brandy, you got us out of the ER and then again out of the ICU. You showed outstanding creativity and kindness for every obstacle we came up against. Your caring extended from the patient to everyone around her, and your patience was exceptional. You are simply the best.
Autumn, our stay on the 4th floor was brief, but you stood out with the connection you made with us and her, and your devoted care, patience, and follow-up was greatly appreciated. Thank you.
Morgan, you were our angel in the ICU. You were there for one of the worst days of our lives. We wouldn't have made it without your compassion, steadfast monitoring, and kindness to all of us. You have a rare humor and honesty found only in the best of humanity. We will always love you.
Emaleigh and Deepa, thanks for getting us through the home stretch. You also showed creativity in tense situations and patience dealing with everything we asked. Thank you.
Misako, our room cleaner in the ICU. You were particularly efficient, quick, vigilant, and sweet. Thank you. Rebekah, our room cleaner on the third floor. You had us twice. And you were wonderful, respectful, and helpful both times. We loved your smile. Thank you.
Jalyn and Bear, we couldn't have asked for better support staff. Thanks for showing up for our many small emergencies and several big ones.
We must also thank Dr. Higgs, the voice of reason on our worst day; and Dr. Beghli, the soul of compassion when we needed you the most. We had many, many doctors on this journey but you two stood out as the best. Thank you.
We would be remiss not to thank the entire staff and volunteers at Pappus House where Lois's hospice care concluded. These folks showed great compassion and gentle care toward Lois and family, which helped ensure Lois's peaceful and gentle passing.
Lastly, thank you to the team at Memorial White Rose Hospice for accepting Lois as a patient and facilitating comfort care and her move to Pappus House.
Her viewing will be held at Keffer Funeral Home 2114 West Market Street in York on Saturday, July 22nd at 1:00 PM followed by a service at 2:00 PM officiated by Barron Barley. All are invited to our hosted celebration reception following the service at Hoss's Steak & Sea House, 2175 White St. Interment will be held privately with the family at a later date. Memorial contributions may be made to Pappus House, 253 Cherry St, York, 17402.
Posted online on July 14, 2023
Published in York Daily Record, York Dispatch
Lois was accomplished in archery and enjoyed various levels of competition as a young woman. She also loved ice skating and was an avid reader her whole life. She would often startle people who asked her what she was reading when she showed them a book from the horror genre. She used her college degree at several jobs with York area businesses and later in her marriage, writing newsletters and articles for her husband's business publications. She loved butterflies and had a deep and abiding love for plants, flowers, and gardening of all kinds. She loved raising plants from cuttings, which she was pleased to share with others. Lois was a longtime member of the Shiloh Garden Club and competed in flower and garden shows for years, collecting a raft of blue ribbons and Best of Show honors. She passed on her fascination with plants to her children by enrolling them in the Shiloh Junior Garden Club.
Lois was a proud member of the York County Historical Society (Heritage Trust) and visited events or expositions once or twice a year. She enjoyed book sales and was a volunteer for many years at the York Hospital Auxiliary Book Nook. She also volunteered at church sales and benefits at Christmas time and would wrap gifts for nursing home residents. One of her fondest yearly traditions was going to the York Fair. She loved to travel to different historical and notable places, with one of her favorite destinations being Longwood Gardens, especially during the spring and then again in December. She also enjoyed Hershey Gardens, most notably the butterfly house. Later in life, she belonged to the Women's Crochet Circle at the Church of the Open Door in Shiloh, where she crocheted and donated many items, including baby blankets.
Lois married Joseph Barley of York in 1955. Lois and Joe celebrated their 55th wedding anniversary before his passing. The couple had three sons; Eric, Barron, and Karl, all of York. She often said her greatest source of pride was her family. Two of her specialty foods she made for the boys were baked spaghetti and a special family recipe for German macaroni salad. She also liked to make old fashioned pastel mint candies. She loved celebrating birthdays, holidays, eating out, admiring Christmas lights and decorations, firework displays, and taking car rides and vacation time with family members and friends. Lois is survived by her three children and their spouses; Hilary, Karen and Donna, respectively, five grandchildren and four great grandchildren. Lois will be remembered as a mother, grandmother and great grandmother who loved unconditionally, and supported her children's and grandchildren's dreams wholeheartedly. Her humor, intellect, zest for life (and sometimes sassiness) will leave a lasting impression on all who knew her.
The family would like to thank several important people in Lois's life in the last few years. First, Zachary Miller of WellSpan Rehabilitation on Bannister Street in York. Zach, your patience and devotion gave her mobility, and quality time with her family, which she otherwise wouldn't have had. She loved you, and we thank you. Also, Shay, her visiting caretaker; thank you for your patience and care with her. She simply couldn't replace you.
For the last 14 days we were at UPMC and would like to acknowledge the exceptional staff we met from the ER, 3rd floor, ICU, and the 4th floor.
Brandy, you got us out of the ER and then again out of the ICU. You showed outstanding creativity and kindness for every obstacle we came up against. Your caring extended from the patient to everyone around her, and your patience was exceptional. You are simply the best.
Autumn, our stay on the 4th floor was brief, but you stood out with the connection you made with us and her, and your devoted care, patience, and follow-up was greatly appreciated. Thank you.
Morgan, you were our angel in the ICU. You were there for one of the worst days of our lives. We wouldn't have made it without your compassion, steadfast monitoring, and kindness to all of us. You have a rare humor and honesty found only in the best of humanity. We will always love you.
Emaleigh and Deepa, thanks for getting us through the home stretch. You also showed creativity in tense situations and patience dealing with everything we asked. Thank you.
Misako, our room cleaner in the ICU. You were particularly efficient, quick, vigilant, and sweet. Thank you. Rebekah, our room cleaner on the third floor. You had us twice. And you were wonderful, respectful, and helpful both times. We loved your smile. Thank you.
Jalyn and Bear, we couldn't have asked for better support staff. Thanks for showing up for our many small emergencies and several big ones.
We must also thank Dr. Higgs, the voice of reason on our worst day; and Dr. Beghli, the soul of compassion when we needed you the most. We had many, many doctors on this journey but you two stood out as the best. Thank you.
We would be remiss not to thank the entire staff and volunteers at Pappus House where Lois's hospice care concluded. These folks showed great compassion and gentle care toward Lois and family, which helped ensure Lois's peaceful and gentle passing.
Lastly, thank you to the team at Memorial White Rose Hospice for accepting Lois as a patient and facilitating comfort care and her move to Pappus House.
Her viewing will be held at Keffer Funeral Home 2114 West Market Street in York on Saturday, July 22nd at 1:00 PM followed by a service at 2:00 PM officiated by Barron Barley. All are invited to our hosted celebration reception following the service at Hoss's Steak & Sea House, 2175 White St. Interment will be held privately with the family at a later date. Memorial contributions may be made to Pappus House, 253 Cherry St, York, 17402.
Posted online on July 14, 2023
Published in York Daily Record, York Dispatch
Lois Catharine Barley, 95, of York, Pennsylvania, passed away peacefully at Pappus House in York on July 13, 2023, among flowers, pictures from home, and family. Lois was born on April 4, 1928, at her parents' home on East King Street in York. When Lois was six years-old she and her parents Catharine and Philip Householder moved to the Canal Zone, where her dad worked on U.S. Navy ships and freighters traversing the Panama Canal. Lois spent her childhood through high school years in Panama, graduating in 1946. Her memories included learning to swing dance, attending her high school dances, and going to movies. She also loved to play cards. When her family returned to York, Lois went to college at the New Jersey Women's College, now part of Rutgers University, and earned her Bachelor of Letters, Advertising and Public Relations (Journalism) degree.
Lois was accomplished in archery and enjoyed various levels of competition as a young woman. She also loved ice skating and was an avid reader her whole life. She would often startle people who asked her what she was reading when she showed them a book from the horror genre. She used her college degree at several jobs with York area businesses and later in her marriage, writing newsletters and articles for her husband's business publications. She loved butterflies and had a deep and abiding love for plants, flowers, and gardening of all kinds. She loved raising plants from cuttings, which she was pleased to share with others. Lois was a longtime member of the Shiloh Garden Club and competed in flower and garden shows for years, collecting a raft of blue ribbons and Best of Show honors. She passed on her fascination with plants to her children by enrolling them in the Shiloh Junior Garden Club.
Lois was a proud member of the York County Historical Society (Heritage Trust) and visited events or expositions once or twice a year. She enjoyed book sales and was a volunteer for many years at the York Hospital Auxiliary Book Nook. She also volunteered at church sales and benefits at Christmas time and would wrap gifts for nursing home residents. One of her fondest yearly traditions was going to the York Fair. She loved to travel to different historical and notable places, with one of her favorite destinations being Longwood Gardens, especially during the spring and then again in December. She also enjoyed Hershey Gardens, most notably the butterfly house. Later in life, she belonged to the Women's Crochet Circle at the Church of the Open Door in Shiloh, where she crocheted and donated many items, including baby blankets.
Lois married Joseph Barley of York in 1955. Lois and Joe celebrated their 55th wedding anniversary before his passing. The couple had three sons; Eric, Barron, and Karl, all of York. She often said her greatest source of pride was her family. Two of her specialty foods she made for the boys were baked spaghetti and a special family recipe for German macaroni salad. She also liked to make old fashioned pastel mint candies. She loved celebrating birthdays, holidays, eating out, admiring Christmas lights and decorations, firework displays, and taking car rides and vacation time with family members and friends. Lois is survived by her three children and their spouses; Hilary, Karen and Donna, respectively, five grandchildren and four great grandchildren. Lois will be remembered as a mother, grandmother and great grandmother who loved unconditionally, and supported her children's and grandchildren's dreams wholeheartedly. Her humor, intellect, zest for life (and sometimes sassiness) will leave a lasting impression on all who knew her.
The family would like to thank several important people in Lois's life in the last few years. First, Zachary Miller of WellSpan Rehabilitation on Bannister Street in York. Zach, your patience and devotion gave her mobility, and quality time with her family, which she otherwise wouldn't have had. She loved you, and we thank you. Also, Shay, her visiting caretaker; thank you for your patience and care with her. She simply couldn't replace you.
For the last 14 days we were at UPMC and would like to acknowledge the exceptional staff we met from the ER, 3rd floor, ICU, and the 4th floor.
Brandy, you got us out of the ER and then again out of the ICU. You showed outstanding creativity and kindness for every obstacle we came up against. Your caring extended from the patient to everyone around her, and your patience was exceptional. You are simply the best.
Autumn, our stay on the 4th floor was brief, but you stood out with the connection you made with us and her, and your devoted care, patience, and follow-up was greatly appreciated. Thank you.
Morgan, you were our angel in the ICU. You were there for one of the worst days of our lives. We wouldn't have made it without your compassion, steadfast monitoring, and kindness to all of us. You have a rare humor and honesty found only in the best of humanity. We will always love you.
Emaleigh and Deepa, thanks for getting us through the home stretch. You also showed creativity in tense situations and patience dealing with everything we asked. Thank you.
Misako, our room cleaner in the ICU. You were particularly efficient, quick, vigilant, and sweet. Thank you. Rebekah, our room cleaner on the third floor. You had us twice. And you were wonderful, respectful, and helpful both times. We loved your smile. Thank you.
Jalyn and Bear, we couldn't have asked for better support staff. Thanks for showing up for our many small emergencies and several big ones.
We must also thank Dr. Higgs, the voice of reason on our worst day; and Dr. Beghli, the soul of compassion when we needed you the most. We had many, many doctors on this journey but you two stood out as the best. Thank you.
We would be remiss not to thank the entire staff and volunteers at Pappus House where Lois's hospice care concluded. These folks showed great compassion and gentle care toward Lois and family, which helped ensure Lois's peaceful and gentle passing.
Lastly, thank you to the team at Memorial White Rose Hospice for accepting Lois as a patient and facilitating comfort care and her move to Pappus House.
Her viewing will be held at Keffer Funeral Home 2114 West Market Street in York on Saturday, July 22nd at 1:00 PM followed by a service at 2:00 PM officiated by Barron Barley. All are invited to our hosted celebration reception following the service at Hoss's Steak & Sea House, 2175 White St. Interment will be held privately with the family at a later date. Memorial contributions may be made to Pappus House, 253 Cherry St, York, 17402.
Posted online on July 14, 2023
Published in York Daily Record, York Dispatch
Lois was accomplished in archery and enjoyed various levels of competition as a young woman. She also loved ice skating and was an avid reader her whole life. She would often startle people who asked her what she was reading when she showed them a book from the horror genre. She used her college degree at several jobs with York area businesses and later in her marriage, writing newsletters and articles for her husband's business publications. She loved butterflies and had a deep and abiding love for plants, flowers, and gardening of all kinds. She loved raising plants from cuttings, which she was pleased to share with others. Lois was a longtime member of the Shiloh Garden Club and competed in flower and garden shows for years, collecting a raft of blue ribbons and Best of Show honors. She passed on her fascination with plants to her children by enrolling them in the Shiloh Junior Garden Club.
Lois was a proud member of the York County Historical Society (Heritage Trust) and visited events or expositions once or twice a year. She enjoyed book sales and was a volunteer for many years at the York Hospital Auxiliary Book Nook. She also volunteered at church sales and benefits at Christmas time and would wrap gifts for nursing home residents. One of her fondest yearly traditions was going to the York Fair. She loved to travel to different historical and notable places, with one of her favorite destinations being Longwood Gardens, especially during the spring and then again in December. She also enjoyed Hershey Gardens, most notably the butterfly house. Later in life, she belonged to the Women's Crochet Circle at the Church of the Open Door in Shiloh, where she crocheted and donated many items, including baby blankets.
Lois married Joseph Barley of York in 1955. Lois and Joe celebrated their 55th wedding anniversary before his passing. The couple had three sons; Eric, Barron, and Karl, all of York. She often said her greatest source of pride was her family. Two of her specialty foods she made for the boys were baked spaghetti and a special family recipe for German macaroni salad. She also liked to make old fashioned pastel mint candies. She loved celebrating birthdays, holidays, eating out, admiring Christmas lights and decorations, firework displays, and taking car rides and vacation time with family members and friends. Lois is survived by her three children and their spouses; Hilary, Karen and Donna, respectively, five grandchildren and four great grandchildren. Lois will be remembered as a mother, grandmother and great grandmother who loved unconditionally, and supported her children's and grandchildren's dreams wholeheartedly. Her humor, intellect, zest for life (and sometimes sassiness) will leave a lasting impression on all who knew her.
The family would like to thank several important people in Lois's life in the last few years. First, Zachary Miller of WellSpan Rehabilitation on Bannister Street in York. Zach, your patience and devotion gave her mobility, and quality time with her family, which she otherwise wouldn't have had. She loved you, and we thank you. Also, Shay, her visiting caretaker; thank you for your patience and care with her. She simply couldn't replace you.
For the last 14 days we were at UPMC and would like to acknowledge the exceptional staff we met from the ER, 3rd floor, ICU, and the 4th floor.
Brandy, you got us out of the ER and then again out of the ICU. You showed outstanding creativity and kindness for every obstacle we came up against. Your caring extended from the patient to everyone around her, and your patience was exceptional. You are simply the best.
Autumn, our stay on the 4th floor was brief, but you stood out with the connection you made with us and her, and your devoted care, patience, and follow-up was greatly appreciated. Thank you.
Morgan, you were our angel in the ICU. You were there for one of the worst days of our lives. We wouldn't have made it without your compassion, steadfast monitoring, and kindness to all of us. You have a rare humor and honesty found only in the best of humanity. We will always love you.
Emaleigh and Deepa, thanks for getting us through the home stretch. You also showed creativity in tense situations and patience dealing with everything we asked. Thank you.
Misako, our room cleaner in the ICU. You were particularly efficient, quick, vigilant, and sweet. Thank you. Rebekah, our room cleaner on the third floor. You had us twice. And you were wonderful, respectful, and helpful both times. We loved your smile. Thank you.
Jalyn and Bear, we couldn't have asked for better support staff. Thanks for showing up for our many small emergencies and several big ones.
We must also thank Dr. Higgs, the voice of reason on our worst day; and Dr. Beghli, the soul of compassion when we needed you the most. We had many, many doctors on this journey but you two stood out as the best. Thank you.
We would be remiss not to thank the entire staff and volunteers at Pappus House where Lois's hospice care concluded. These folks showed great compassion and gentle care toward Lois and family, which helped ensure Lois's peaceful and gentle passing.
Lastly, thank you to the team at Memorial White Rose Hospice for accepting Lois as a patient and facilitating comfort care and her move to Pappus House.
Her viewing will be held at Keffer Funeral Home 2114 West Market Street in York on Saturday, July 22nd at 1:00 PM followed by a service at 2:00 PM officiated by Barron Barley. All are invited to our hosted celebration reception following the service at Hoss's Steak & Sea House, 2175 White St. Interment will be held privately with the family at a later date. Memorial contributions may be made to Pappus House, 253 Cherry St, York, 17402.
Posted online on July 14, 2023
Published in York Daily Record, York Dispatch
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