Shirley Grabb Obituary
We are sad to announce that on June 30, 2021, at the age of 97, Shirley Grabb of Fairfax, Virginia, born in Cheboygan, Michigan passed away. Family and friends are welcome to send flowers or leave their condolences on this memorial page and share them with the family.
She was loved and cherished by many people including : her parents, Arthur Lafrinere and Lena Lafrinere; her brothers, Alfred, James and Edmond; her husband James E. Grabb; her son Paul A. Grabb, MD (Brenda, MD); her grandchildren, Declan, MD and Gavin; her son Mark L. Grabb (Colleen); and her grandsons, Clark, Miles and Owen.
An excerpt from The Cheboygan Tribune, perhaps 1943: "Miss Shirley Lafrinere, a high school student, who after her day of study, makes the long walk up to the Community Memorial Hospital and works there at her duty as a nurse's aid until eleven o'clock, when her day is ended. That sort of spirit is the spirit that makes America what it is today."
After graduating, Shirley worked as a doctor's assistant for seventeen years giving injections, taking X-rays, analyzing blood samples, and doing whatever else was required. She married Jim Grabb, a Coast Guard lieutenant, in 1961 and moved to Seattle, where Paul was born, and then Portsmouth, VA where Mark was born. Subsequently they lived in Avon, OH, Fairfax City, VA, Lexington, MA, and finally in Fairfax City, VA. Shirley has always been proud of her sons — Paul who is a pediatric neurosurgeon in Kansas City and Mark who is an engineer at General Electric Research in upstate NY. Her five grandsons were an added blessing, and being with them was always a special treat.
Shirley was always active. She loved to golf, bowl, run around the neighborhood, hike and camp, garden, bake and prepare meals. She was a Cub Scout Den mother, an active Little League mother, and the neighborhood mother that kids flocked to. She literally never rested.
Shirley contracted Lyme Disease in 2010 and immediately showed clear signs of dementia. However, true to her character, she continued to carry on doing her church oriented volunteer work at the Fairfax Nursing Center and The Gardens at Fair Oaks, as well as golfing and bowling. For many years she had a poster in her kitchen, "Don't Ever Give Up." She attended Mass at St. Leo's until it was impossible to walk or stand. Shirley was the ultimate doer.
Shirley is survived by her husband Capt. James E. Grabb, USCG (Ret.), sons Paul A. Grabb, MD (Brenda, MD) and their sons, Declan, MD and Gavin, and Mark L. Grabb (Colleen) and their sons, Clark, Miles, and Owen.
A Mass of Christian Burial will be held at 11:00 a. m. on Thursday, July 22, at St. Leo the Great Catholic Church, 3700 Old Lee Highway, Fairfax, Virginia. Interment will be at Arlington National Cemetery at a later date.
Shirley Grabb Obituary
We are sad to announce that on June 30, 2021, at the age of 97, Shirley Grabb of Fairfax, Virginia, born in Cheboygan, Michigan passed away. Family and friends are welcome to send flowers or leave their condolences on this memorial page and share them with the family.
She was loved and cherished by many people including : her parents, Arthur Lafrinere and Lena Lafrinere; her brothers, Alfred, James and Edmond; her husband James E. Grabb; her son Paul A. Grabb, MD (Brenda, MD); her grandchildren, Declan, MD and Gavin; her son Mark L. Grabb (Colleen); and her grandsons, Clark, Miles and Owen.
An excerpt from The Cheboygan Tribune, perhaps 1943: "Miss Shirley Lafrinere, a high school student, who after her day of study, makes the long walk up to the Community Memorial Hospital and works there at her duty as a nurse's aid until eleven o'clock, when her day is ended. That sort of spirit is the spirit that makes America what it is today."
After graduating, Shirley worked as a doctor's assistant for seventeen years giving injections, taking X-rays, analyzing blood samples, and doing whatever else was required. She married Jim Grabb, a Coast Guard lieutenant, in 1961 and moved to Seattle, where Paul was born, and then Portsmouth, VA where Mark was born. Subsequently they lived in Avon, OH, Fairfax City, VA, Lexington, MA, and finally in Fairfax City, VA. Shirley has always been proud of her sons — Paul who is a pediatric neurosurgeon in Kansas City and Mark who is an engineer at General Electric Research in upstate NY. Her five grandsons were an added blessing, and being with them was always a special treat.
Shirley was always active. She loved to golf, bowl, run around the neighborhood, hike and camp, garden, bake and prepare meals. She was a Cub Scout Den mother, an active Little League mother, and the neighborhood mother that kids flocked to. She literally never rested.
Shirley contracted Lyme Disease in 2010 and immediately showed clear signs of dementia. However, true to her character, she continued to carry on doing her church oriented volunteer work at the Fairfax Nursing Center and The Gardens at Fair Oaks, as well as golfing and bowling. For many years she had a poster in her kitchen, "Don't Ever Give Up." She attended Mass at St. Leo's until it was impossible to walk or stand. Shirley was the ultimate doer.
Shirley is survived by her husband Capt. James E. Grabb, USCG (Ret.), sons Paul A. Grabb, MD (Brenda, MD) and their sons, Declan, MD and Gavin, and Mark L. Grabb (Colleen) and their sons, Clark, Miles, and Owen.
A Mass of Christian Burial will be held at 11:00 a. m. on Thursday, July 22, at St. Leo the Great Catholic Church, 3700 Old Lee Highway, Fairfax, Virginia. Interment will be at Arlington National Cemetery at a later date.
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