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Abigail Ann “Abi” Hone

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Abigail Ann “Abi” Hone

Birth
New Zealand
Death
31 May 2014 (aged 12)
Rakaia, Ashburton District, Canterbury, New Zealand
Burial
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In a realm of nature's expanse, the most profound moments of beauty often unfold before our eyes in the blink of an instant, and such was the radiant life of Abigail Ann "Abi" Hone. Born on April 24, 2002, in the picturesque nation of New Zealand, Abi's life was as full of promise as a sunrise over the Canterbury plains. However, in a twist of tragic fate, this promising light was extinguished prematurely on May 31, 2014, in a tragic car accident in Rakaia, taking with her a piece of every heart she had ever touched.

Tragedy has a way of revealing the depth of human strength and compassion. The manner of Abi's passing is undeniably heart-wrenching. A car crash in Rakaia, attributed to a lapse in judgment by a foreign tourist, also claimed the lives of her dear friend, Ella Yasmin Summerfield, and Ella's mother, Sally Vanessa Summerfield. Abi's life was taken just as it was blossoming, reminding us of the fragility and unpredictability of life.

Abi, as described by those who knew her, was nothing short of an illuminating presence. Wyn Mossman, a close family friend of both the Hones and the Summerfields, remembered her fondly, saying, "Abi was a bloody character. She was gorgeous." This description captures the essence of a girl whose vivacity made her stand out, leaving a lasting impression on everyone she encountered.

But to understand the depth of Abi's impact, one need not look any further than the community of Sumner, a place she called home. The loss was felt deeply, with Wyn noting that the crash "ripped the heart out" of the close-knit community. Abi's friends and schoolmates at Rangi Ruru Girls' School were left in a state of shock and grief, with the principal, Julie Moor, reflecting on Abi's bright future by saying, "She [Abi] was such a gorgeous girl who was full of potential." This sentiment echoed across social media, with friends pouring out their heartfelt condolences. One poignant message read, "Rest in peace Abi, you are truly one of the most amazing beautiful little girls there are."

Yet, amidst the ocean of sorrow, the resilience and strength showcased by the Hone family stand out. Abi's parents, Lucy and Trevor Hone, while grappling with the weight of their unimaginable loss, extended empathy towards the driver, understanding that errors in judgment, while devastating, are innately human. The grace with which they handled this tragedy is emblematic of the kind of community pillars they have been. Trevor, for instance, had recently provided materials and workers to construct a skate ramp in Sumner. Lucy, on the other hand, had been instrumental in bolstering community spirit in the wake of the Christchurch Earthquake.

Lucy's resilience post the tragedy is testament to the undying spirit of a mother's love. Almost two years after her daughter's passing, she revealed how she kept Abi's memory alive, from wearing her necklace for strength to celebrating her birthday annually at a cherished beach spot. For Lucy, the grief was intense, yet she made a conscious choice, choosing 'life over death,' showing an extraordinary spirit by ensuring that Abi's memory remains a beacon of love and not just a source of sorrow.

The aftermath of the tragic incident also sparked discussions on road safety, particularly concerning foreign tourists driving in New Zealand. While the debate over regulations continues, it serves as a poignant reminder that behind every statistic is a life, a family, and a community changed forever.

Abi's story also underscores the fragility and beauty of life. It teaches us that while the length of life is unpredictable, the depth and impact of a life are immeasurable. The memories she created, the joy she spread, and the lives she touched are her enduring legacy. Abi's spirit, as vibrant and radiant as the New Zealand sky she was born under, will forever be remembered by those fortunate enough to have known her.

In concluding this tribute, we are reminded of a timeless truth: that our lives are not just measured by the number of days we live but by the love we give and the lives we touch. Abigail Ann "Abi" Hone, in her short time on earth, accomplished what many strive for in a lifetime: leaving behind an indelible mark of love, joy, and beauty. She is, and will always be, deeply missed.

Written by: Alan Owen
In a realm of nature's expanse, the most profound moments of beauty often unfold before our eyes in the blink of an instant, and such was the radiant life of Abigail Ann "Abi" Hone. Born on April 24, 2002, in the picturesque nation of New Zealand, Abi's life was as full of promise as a sunrise over the Canterbury plains. However, in a twist of tragic fate, this promising light was extinguished prematurely on May 31, 2014, in a tragic car accident in Rakaia, taking with her a piece of every heart she had ever touched.

Tragedy has a way of revealing the depth of human strength and compassion. The manner of Abi's passing is undeniably heart-wrenching. A car crash in Rakaia, attributed to a lapse in judgment by a foreign tourist, also claimed the lives of her dear friend, Ella Yasmin Summerfield, and Ella's mother, Sally Vanessa Summerfield. Abi's life was taken just as it was blossoming, reminding us of the fragility and unpredictability of life.

Abi, as described by those who knew her, was nothing short of an illuminating presence. Wyn Mossman, a close family friend of both the Hones and the Summerfields, remembered her fondly, saying, "Abi was a bloody character. She was gorgeous." This description captures the essence of a girl whose vivacity made her stand out, leaving a lasting impression on everyone she encountered.

But to understand the depth of Abi's impact, one need not look any further than the community of Sumner, a place she called home. The loss was felt deeply, with Wyn noting that the crash "ripped the heart out" of the close-knit community. Abi's friends and schoolmates at Rangi Ruru Girls' School were left in a state of shock and grief, with the principal, Julie Moor, reflecting on Abi's bright future by saying, "She [Abi] was such a gorgeous girl who was full of potential." This sentiment echoed across social media, with friends pouring out their heartfelt condolences. One poignant message read, "Rest in peace Abi, you are truly one of the most amazing beautiful little girls there are."

Yet, amidst the ocean of sorrow, the resilience and strength showcased by the Hone family stand out. Abi's parents, Lucy and Trevor Hone, while grappling with the weight of their unimaginable loss, extended empathy towards the driver, understanding that errors in judgment, while devastating, are innately human. The grace with which they handled this tragedy is emblematic of the kind of community pillars they have been. Trevor, for instance, had recently provided materials and workers to construct a skate ramp in Sumner. Lucy, on the other hand, had been instrumental in bolstering community spirit in the wake of the Christchurch Earthquake.

Lucy's resilience post the tragedy is testament to the undying spirit of a mother's love. Almost two years after her daughter's passing, she revealed how she kept Abi's memory alive, from wearing her necklace for strength to celebrating her birthday annually at a cherished beach spot. For Lucy, the grief was intense, yet she made a conscious choice, choosing 'life over death,' showing an extraordinary spirit by ensuring that Abi's memory remains a beacon of love and not just a source of sorrow.

The aftermath of the tragic incident also sparked discussions on road safety, particularly concerning foreign tourists driving in New Zealand. While the debate over regulations continues, it serves as a poignant reminder that behind every statistic is a life, a family, and a community changed forever.

Abi's story also underscores the fragility and beauty of life. It teaches us that while the length of life is unpredictable, the depth and impact of a life are immeasurable. The memories she created, the joy she spread, and the lives she touched are her enduring legacy. Abi's spirit, as vibrant and radiant as the New Zealand sky she was born under, will forever be remembered by those fortunate enough to have known her.

In concluding this tribute, we are reminded of a timeless truth: that our lives are not just measured by the number of days we live but by the love we give and the lives we touch. Abigail Ann "Abi" Hone, in her short time on earth, accomplished what many strive for in a lifetime: leaving behind an indelible mark of love, joy, and beauty. She is, and will always be, deeply missed.

Written by: Alan Owen

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