Philip, 63, of Farwell, went to be with his Lord on Sunday, March 10, 2019 at his home. He was the son of Verlen and Genevieve "Jenny" (Seavolt) Kruger.
Phil served a career of 22 years as a Civil Engineer in the US Air Force, serving in the Vietnam War Era, Grenada/Panama, and Desert Storm and Shield/ Persian Gulf War, retiring in 1994 as a Master Sergeant. He was married to the former Truda Gilbert, and she survives him.
They moved to Farwell in 1995 and he had worked as a Plumber/Pipefitter with Terry Norris Plumbing. He was a member of the First Baptist Church of Clare where he had served as a Trustee and was involved in the Children's Ministries. He enjoyed Shooting Sports, Marksmanship, anything involving Nature or being Outdoors, and riding bicycles.
Phil is survived by his wife Truda, his mother, Genevieve Kruger of Rosebush, his children, Michael (Jennifer) Kruger of Lansing, William Kruger of Oregon, Matthew (Taralyn) Kruger of Kalamazoo, Joshua (Angie) Schomp of Greensborough, NC, Sarah (Marcelin) Nikuvwayo of Lansing, and Zachary (Marcela) Schomp of Farwell, and six dear grandchildren. Also surviving are his siblings, Nancy (Terry ) Norris, Christine (Lynn) Prout, Dan (Kathie) Kruger, David (Delia) Kruger, Mary (Ferrin) Williams, Deborah (Joe) Allard, and Sarah (Steve) Sparkes.
A Celebration of Phil's Life was held on Saturday, March 30, at the First Baptist Church of Clare, Clare, Mi. with Pastor Douglas Blackwell officiating. Burial was in Surrey Cemetery.
Phil loved pocket knives and flashlights. His family requests that everyone bring a flashlight to his service.
Stephenson Wyman Funeral Home
Truda Kruger remarks at the Memorial Service for husband Philip Kruger 2019-03-30
Truda Kruger
March 30, 2019
Truda's remarks to celebrate the life of her dear husband and best friend, Philip Mark Kruger.
At the 'Celebration of Life' – Held today at the Memorial Service for Philip Mark Kruger; at 12:00 PM, Saturday, March 30, 2019, at the First Baptist Church of Clare;
Clare, Michigan.
Truda's remarks:
Joy in the midst of adversity
This is a message Phil wanted me to share with you all.
You may think it is impossible to have Joy during an adversity.
Most people may think that either you have Joy or Sorrow, but not possible to have both emotions at the same time. This is not humanly possible. But with God, all things are possible.
Who is God? What is your relationship with God? These are 2 questions that Phil and I would like to explore with you today.
Who is God when we are happy? Who is God when you are angry and bitter?
God says he is I AM. The Alpha and Omega, Almighty, Bright and Morning Star, Comforter, Christ, Deliverer, Emmanuel, Forgiver, God, Healer, Hope, Jesus, Jehovah, King of Kings, Lord, Messiah, Overcomer, Perfect Sacrifice, Redeemer, Savior, Truth, Way, and Yahweh.
Do you really believe that God is all these qualities? All the time!
What is your relationship with God? Philip knew God and shared his relationship with God to all he met.
Do you know God? Most people are familiar with the name of God. Some may even attend church occasionally and read some scripture on Sunday morning. Then go home and get busy and get consumed with life until they meet back in church again or have a tragedy... Why does it take a tragedy to start building a relationship with God? And begin to think about loving God and loving others?
In Matthew 7:21-23 in the Bible Jesus talks about when we die and want to enter into heaven. He tells us: 21 "Not everyone who says to me, 'Lord, Lord,' will enter the kingdom of heaven, but the one who does the will of my Father who is in heaven. 22 On that day many will say to me, 'Lord, Lord, did we not prophesy in your name, and cast out demons in your name, and do many mighty works in your name?' 23 And then will I declare to them, 'I never knew you; depart from me, you workers of lawlessness.'
In light of this passage, what does it mean, I never knew you?
How do you get to know somebody? You may know our president because you have seen him on TV and read a lot about him and perhaps you went to a rally and shook his hand, But, does he know you?
How do you build a relationship with someone?
In a marriage relationship, first you date and spend a lot of time with each other and think about each other often during the day. Then after the wedding, either you continue to nurture this relationship, or you grow apart. When a tragedy comes along, Mary Free Bed Rehab told Phil and I that over 90% of relationships dissolve when severe health issues arise. This is tragic!
Phil has had a couple of mentors that helped him to be the loving care giver he was. June and Bud Jenkins and Ken and Harriet Beard. Many of doctors have told me without the loving care that Phil gave me during the many, many trials I have had, I would not be here today. He always was very meticulous about my care, and that everything was sterile and done right. He was always fussing over me. I love how he loved me. Phil has since been a mentor to our children and grandchildren who have great compassion for me. They watched their Father care for their Mother so tenderly. I am so grateful for the care our children have given us.
I want to share with you how God taught me how to have Joy in our many adversities. God asked me many times as tragedy hit our lives, Truda, do you still love me?
When our son Joshua was young, we learned he had neurofibrotosis and if he didn't have some emergency surgeries, we would lose him. And during the surgeries, he could become paralyzed or die. Joshua had many long and dangerous surgeries throughout Junior high and Highly school. We learned to trust God with our son. And yes, throughout the entire time it was easy to trust God and Love him because I had Phil by my side helping to remind me that God was with us.
Then about 19 years ago, I had an accident and became paralyzed. I distinctly recall God asking me again if I still loved Him. I had no tears, or angry thoughts. I just once again knew I could trust my loving Heavenly Father, ABBA Father, to take care of me. This was made easier with Phil by my side as a caregiver.
Then I had another accident the following year when I broke my neck and was in a halo for a few months. I was asked again by God; do you still love me? The answer was of course yes again, knowing Phil was by my side.
It has always been easy to trust God with Phil by my side.
Now when Phil got cancer, it was a different story. For the first time, when God asked me if I still loved Him, I got angry, confused, and cried a lot and questioned God's judgement of taking Phil before me. Who would take care of me? Both of our mentors who took care of their wives out lived their disabled wives. I was always so sure God would likewise take me first.
Phil and I earnestly sought out different agencies who could care for my physical needs. There were none.
This was when my Dad started reminding me to Meditate more with God. I was so used to talking TO God..... but Dad would ask me if I was LISTENING to God. This has always been a problem for me all my life..... I would love to talk with people and when they start to talk, I would often get thoughts in my mind and interrupt them before I lost my thoughts. So, I decided to start Listening to God and listen more patiently with others. Throughout the summer months I would spend up to an hour or so during the day being still and listening to God. Slowly, by fall, I began to hear God's answer to my care. If I got brave, and trusted God, I could have some surgery and become independent. After many tears, I finally made my first appointment in December. I finally got a break through in my emotions and my anger turned to Joy! I finally got peace. For the first time, after 11 months of agony, I gave my fears to God and am experiencing His Joy in the midst of watching Philip, my beloved slowly pass away in much pain. It was always easier to give my health and our son, Joshua, to God having Phil by my side. But to take my caregiver and the love of my life from me, it took much anguish and struggling to say to God, I still love you and enjoy his peace and Joy and start counting my blessings! God reminded me that I was not going to be alone! He sent family and friends to love on me and help me through this!
Keep calm! Carry on! This has been my motto after reading "You'll get through this: Hope and help for your turbulent times" by Max Lucado.
You'll get through this. It won't be painless. It won't be quick. But God will use this mess for good. Don't be foolish or naive. But don't despair either. Keep calm! Carry on!
Phil loved 2 things. Eagles and flashlights. Our kitchen is filled with eagles and he always carried a flashlight. Phil's two favorite scriptures were:
31 But they that wait upon the Lord shall renew their strength; they shall mount up with wings as eagles; they shall run, and not be weary; and they shall walk, and not faint. (Isaiah 40:31 King James Version, KJV)
15 Neither do people light a lamp and put it under a bowl. Instead they put it on its stand, and it gives light to everyone in the house. 16 In the same way, let your light shine before others, that they may see your good deeds and glorify your Father in heaven. (Matthew 5:15-16 New International Version, NIV)
Phil would encourage you to put your trust in God today and start building a relationship with him. Listen to God. Read his Word. Trust and be obedient to him. Love Him with all your heart, soul, and mind. And love your neighbor.
Don't worry about all the horizontal problems of life. Trust God. Experience God's love, peace, and Joy in the midst of any adversity! Love God and love your neighbor.
You'll get through this. It won't be painless. It won't be quick. But God will use this mess for good. Don't be foolish or naïve. But don't despair either. Keep calm! Carry on! Be a lighthouse and let your light shine and soar like an eagle. Keep it Vertical!
With love for my wonderful husband and best friend,
Truda Kruger
Link - https://www.facebook.com/truda.kruger/posts/10218716682297408
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Phil served a career of 22 years as a Civil Engineer in the US Air Force, serving in the Vietnam War Era, Grenada/Panama, and Desert Storm and Shield/ Persian Gulf War, retiring in 1994 as a Master Sergeant. He was married to the former Truda Gilbert, and she survives him.
They moved to Farwell in 1995 and he had worked as a Plumber/Pipefitter with Terry Norris Plumbing. He was a member of the First Baptist Church of Clare where he had served as a Trustee and was involved in the Children's Ministries. He enjoyed Shooting Sports, Marksmanship, anything involving Nature or being Outdoors, and riding bicycles.
Phil is survived by his wife Truda, his mother, Genevieve Kruger of Rosebush, his children, Michael (Jennifer) Kruger of Lansing, William Kruger of Oregon, Matthew (Taralyn) Kruger of Kalamazoo, Joshua (Angie) Schomp of Greensborough, NC, Sarah (Marcelin) Nikuvwayo of Lansing, and Zachary (Marcela) Schomp of Farwell, and six dear grandchildren. Also surviving are his siblings, Nancy (Terry ) Norris, Christine (Lynn) Prout, Dan (Kathie) Kruger, David (Delia) Kruger, Mary (Ferrin) Williams, Deborah (Joe) Allard, and Sarah (Steve) Sparkes.
A Celebration of Phil's Life was held on Saturday, March 30, at the First Baptist Church of Clare, Clare, Mi. with Pastor Douglas Blackwell officiating. Burial was in Surrey Cemetery.
Phil loved pocket knives and flashlights. His family requests that everyone bring a flashlight to his service.
Stephenson Wyman Funeral Home
Truda Kruger remarks at the Memorial Service for husband Philip Kruger 2019-03-30
Truda Kruger
March 30, 2019
Truda's remarks to celebrate the life of her dear husband and best friend, Philip Mark Kruger.
At the 'Celebration of Life' – Held today at the Memorial Service for Philip Mark Kruger; at 12:00 PM, Saturday, March 30, 2019, at the First Baptist Church of Clare;
Clare, Michigan.
Truda's remarks:
Joy in the midst of adversity
This is a message Phil wanted me to share with you all.
You may think it is impossible to have Joy during an adversity.
Most people may think that either you have Joy or Sorrow, but not possible to have both emotions at the same time. This is not humanly possible. But with God, all things are possible.
Who is God? What is your relationship with God? These are 2 questions that Phil and I would like to explore with you today.
Who is God when we are happy? Who is God when you are angry and bitter?
God says he is I AM. The Alpha and Omega, Almighty, Bright and Morning Star, Comforter, Christ, Deliverer, Emmanuel, Forgiver, God, Healer, Hope, Jesus, Jehovah, King of Kings, Lord, Messiah, Overcomer, Perfect Sacrifice, Redeemer, Savior, Truth, Way, and Yahweh.
Do you really believe that God is all these qualities? All the time!
What is your relationship with God? Philip knew God and shared his relationship with God to all he met.
Do you know God? Most people are familiar with the name of God. Some may even attend church occasionally and read some scripture on Sunday morning. Then go home and get busy and get consumed with life until they meet back in church again or have a tragedy... Why does it take a tragedy to start building a relationship with God? And begin to think about loving God and loving others?
In Matthew 7:21-23 in the Bible Jesus talks about when we die and want to enter into heaven. He tells us: 21 "Not everyone who says to me, 'Lord, Lord,' will enter the kingdom of heaven, but the one who does the will of my Father who is in heaven. 22 On that day many will say to me, 'Lord, Lord, did we not prophesy in your name, and cast out demons in your name, and do many mighty works in your name?' 23 And then will I declare to them, 'I never knew you; depart from me, you workers of lawlessness.'
In light of this passage, what does it mean, I never knew you?
How do you get to know somebody? You may know our president because you have seen him on TV and read a lot about him and perhaps you went to a rally and shook his hand, But, does he know you?
How do you build a relationship with someone?
In a marriage relationship, first you date and spend a lot of time with each other and think about each other often during the day. Then after the wedding, either you continue to nurture this relationship, or you grow apart. When a tragedy comes along, Mary Free Bed Rehab told Phil and I that over 90% of relationships dissolve when severe health issues arise. This is tragic!
Phil has had a couple of mentors that helped him to be the loving care giver he was. June and Bud Jenkins and Ken and Harriet Beard. Many of doctors have told me without the loving care that Phil gave me during the many, many trials I have had, I would not be here today. He always was very meticulous about my care, and that everything was sterile and done right. He was always fussing over me. I love how he loved me. Phil has since been a mentor to our children and grandchildren who have great compassion for me. They watched their Father care for their Mother so tenderly. I am so grateful for the care our children have given us.
I want to share with you how God taught me how to have Joy in our many adversities. God asked me many times as tragedy hit our lives, Truda, do you still love me?
When our son Joshua was young, we learned he had neurofibrotosis and if he didn't have some emergency surgeries, we would lose him. And during the surgeries, he could become paralyzed or die. Joshua had many long and dangerous surgeries throughout Junior high and Highly school. We learned to trust God with our son. And yes, throughout the entire time it was easy to trust God and Love him because I had Phil by my side helping to remind me that God was with us.
Then about 19 years ago, I had an accident and became paralyzed. I distinctly recall God asking me again if I still loved Him. I had no tears, or angry thoughts. I just once again knew I could trust my loving Heavenly Father, ABBA Father, to take care of me. This was made easier with Phil by my side as a caregiver.
Then I had another accident the following year when I broke my neck and was in a halo for a few months. I was asked again by God; do you still love me? The answer was of course yes again, knowing Phil was by my side.
It has always been easy to trust God with Phil by my side.
Now when Phil got cancer, it was a different story. For the first time, when God asked me if I still loved Him, I got angry, confused, and cried a lot and questioned God's judgement of taking Phil before me. Who would take care of me? Both of our mentors who took care of their wives out lived their disabled wives. I was always so sure God would likewise take me first.
Phil and I earnestly sought out different agencies who could care for my physical needs. There were none.
This was when my Dad started reminding me to Meditate more with God. I was so used to talking TO God..... but Dad would ask me if I was LISTENING to God. This has always been a problem for me all my life..... I would love to talk with people and when they start to talk, I would often get thoughts in my mind and interrupt them before I lost my thoughts. So, I decided to start Listening to God and listen more patiently with others. Throughout the summer months I would spend up to an hour or so during the day being still and listening to God. Slowly, by fall, I began to hear God's answer to my care. If I got brave, and trusted God, I could have some surgery and become independent. After many tears, I finally made my first appointment in December. I finally got a break through in my emotions and my anger turned to Joy! I finally got peace. For the first time, after 11 months of agony, I gave my fears to God and am experiencing His Joy in the midst of watching Philip, my beloved slowly pass away in much pain. It was always easier to give my health and our son, Joshua, to God having Phil by my side. But to take my caregiver and the love of my life from me, it took much anguish and struggling to say to God, I still love you and enjoy his peace and Joy and start counting my blessings! God reminded me that I was not going to be alone! He sent family and friends to love on me and help me through this!
Keep calm! Carry on! This has been my motto after reading "You'll get through this: Hope and help for your turbulent times" by Max Lucado.
You'll get through this. It won't be painless. It won't be quick. But God will use this mess for good. Don't be foolish or naive. But don't despair either. Keep calm! Carry on!
Phil loved 2 things. Eagles and flashlights. Our kitchen is filled with eagles and he always carried a flashlight. Phil's two favorite scriptures were:
31 But they that wait upon the Lord shall renew their strength; they shall mount up with wings as eagles; they shall run, and not be weary; and they shall walk, and not faint. (Isaiah 40:31 King James Version, KJV)
15 Neither do people light a lamp and put it under a bowl. Instead they put it on its stand, and it gives light to everyone in the house. 16 In the same way, let your light shine before others, that they may see your good deeds and glorify your Father in heaven. (Matthew 5:15-16 New International Version, NIV)
Phil would encourage you to put your trust in God today and start building a relationship with him. Listen to God. Read his Word. Trust and be obedient to him. Love Him with all your heart, soul, and mind. And love your neighbor.
Don't worry about all the horizontal problems of life. Trust God. Experience God's love, peace, and Joy in the midst of any adversity! Love God and love your neighbor.
You'll get through this. It won't be painless. It won't be quick. But God will use this mess for good. Don't be foolish or naïve. But don't despair either. Keep calm! Carry on! Be a lighthouse and let your light shine and soar like an eagle. Keep it Vertical!
With love for my wonderful husband and best friend,
Truda Kruger
Link - https://www.facebook.com/truda.kruger/posts/10218716682297408
==========================================================================
Philip, 63, of Farwell, went to be with his Lord on Sunday, March 10, 2019 at his home. He was the son of Verlen and Genevieve "Jenny" (Seavolt) Kruger.
Phil served a career of 22 years as a Civil Engineer in the US Air Force, serving in the Vietnam War Era, Grenada/Panama, and Desert Storm and Shield/ Persian Gulf War, retiring in 1994 as a Master Sergeant. He was married to the former Truda Gilbert, and she survives him.
They moved to Farwell in 1995 and he had worked as a Plumber/Pipefitter with Terry Norris Plumbing. He was a member of the First Baptist Church of Clare where he had served as a Trustee and was involved in the Children's Ministries. He enjoyed Shooting Sports, Marksmanship, anything involving Nature or being Outdoors, and riding bicycles.
Phil is survived by his wife Truda, his mother, Genevieve Kruger of Rosebush, his children, Michael (Jennifer) Kruger of Lansing, William Kruger of Oregon, Matthew (Taralyn) Kruger of Kalamazoo, Joshua (Angie) Schomp of Greensborough, NC, Sarah (Marcelin) Nikuvwayo of Lansing, and Zachary (Marcela) Schomp of Farwell, and six dear grandchildren. Also surviving are his siblings, Nancy (Terry ) Norris, Christine (Lynn) Prout, Dan (Kathie) Kruger, David (Delia) Kruger, Mary (Ferrin) Williams, Deborah (Joe) Allard, and Sarah (Steve) Sparkes.
A Celebration of Phil's Life was held on Saturday, March 30, at the First Baptist Church of Clare, Clare, Mi. with Pastor Douglas Blackwell officiating. Burial was in Surrey Cemetery.
Phil loved pocket knives and flashlights. His family requests that everyone bring a flashlight to his service.
Stephenson Wyman Funeral Home
Truda Kruger remarks at the Memorial Service for husband Philip Kruger 2019-03-30
Truda Kruger
March 30, 2019
Truda's remarks to celebrate the life of her dear husband and best friend, Philip Mark Kruger.
At the 'Celebration of Life' – Held today at the Memorial Service for Philip Mark Kruger; at 12:00 PM, Saturday, March 30, 2019, at the First Baptist Church of Clare;
Clare, Michigan.
Truda's remarks:
Joy in the midst of adversity
This is a message Phil wanted me to share with you all.
You may think it is impossible to have Joy during an adversity.
Most people may think that either you have Joy or Sorrow, but not possible to have both emotions at the same time. This is not humanly possible. But with God, all things are possible.
Who is God? What is your relationship with God? These are 2 questions that Phil and I would like to explore with you today.
Who is God when we are happy? Who is God when you are angry and bitter?
God says he is I AM. The Alpha and Omega, Almighty, Bright and Morning Star, Comforter, Christ, Deliverer, Emmanuel, Forgiver, God, Healer, Hope, Jesus, Jehovah, King of Kings, Lord, Messiah, Overcomer, Perfect Sacrifice, Redeemer, Savior, Truth, Way, and Yahweh.
Do you really believe that God is all these qualities? All the time!
What is your relationship with God? Philip knew God and shared his relationship with God to all he met.
Do you know God? Most people are familiar with the name of God. Some may even attend church occasionally and read some scripture on Sunday morning. Then go home and get busy and get consumed with life until they meet back in church again or have a tragedy... Why does it take a tragedy to start building a relationship with God? And begin to think about loving God and loving others?
In Matthew 7:21-23 in the Bible Jesus talks about when we die and want to enter into heaven. He tells us: 21 "Not everyone who says to me, 'Lord, Lord,' will enter the kingdom of heaven, but the one who does the will of my Father who is in heaven. 22 On that day many will say to me, 'Lord, Lord, did we not prophesy in your name, and cast out demons in your name, and do many mighty works in your name?' 23 And then will I declare to them, 'I never knew you; depart from me, you workers of lawlessness.'
In light of this passage, what does it mean, I never knew you?
How do you get to know somebody? You may know our president because you have seen him on TV and read a lot about him and perhaps you went to a rally and shook his hand, But, does he know you?
How do you build a relationship with someone?
In a marriage relationship, first you date and spend a lot of time with each other and think about each other often during the day. Then after the wedding, either you continue to nurture this relationship, or you grow apart. When a tragedy comes along, Mary Free Bed Rehab told Phil and I that over 90% of relationships dissolve when severe health issues arise. This is tragic!
Phil has had a couple of mentors that helped him to be the loving care giver he was. June and Bud Jenkins and Ken and Harriet Beard. Many of doctors have told me without the loving care that Phil gave me during the many, many trials I have had, I would not be here today. He always was very meticulous about my care, and that everything was sterile and done right. He was always fussing over me. I love how he loved me. Phil has since been a mentor to our children and grandchildren who have great compassion for me. They watched their Father care for their Mother so tenderly. I am so grateful for the care our children have given us.
I want to share with you how God taught me how to have Joy in our many adversities. God asked me many times as tragedy hit our lives, Truda, do you still love me?
When our son Joshua was young, we learned he had neurofibrotosis and if he didn't have some emergency surgeries, we would lose him. And during the surgeries, he could become paralyzed or die. Joshua had many long and dangerous surgeries throughout Junior high and Highly school. We learned to trust God with our son. And yes, throughout the entire time it was easy to trust God and Love him because I had Phil by my side helping to remind me that God was with us.
Then about 19 years ago, I had an accident and became paralyzed. I distinctly recall God asking me again if I still loved Him. I had no tears, or angry thoughts. I just once again knew I could trust my loving Heavenly Father, ABBA Father, to take care of me. This was made easier with Phil by my side as a caregiver.
Then I had another accident the following year when I broke my neck and was in a halo for a few months. I was asked again by God; do you still love me? The answer was of course yes again, knowing Phil was by my side.
It has always been easy to trust God with Phil by my side.
Now when Phil got cancer, it was a different story. For the first time, when God asked me if I still loved Him, I got angry, confused, and cried a lot and questioned God's judgement of taking Phil before me. Who would take care of me? Both of our mentors who took care of their wives out lived their disabled wives. I was always so sure God would likewise take me first.
Phil and I earnestly sought out different agencies who could care for my physical needs. There were none.
This was when my Dad started reminding me to Meditate more with God. I was so used to talking TO God..... but Dad would ask me if I was LISTENING to God. This has always been a problem for me all my life..... I would love to talk with people and when they start to talk, I would often get thoughts in my mind and interrupt them before I lost my thoughts. So, I decided to start Listening to God and listen more patiently with others. Throughout the summer months I would spend up to an hour or so during the day being still and listening to God. Slowly, by fall, I began to hear God's answer to my care. If I got brave, and trusted God, I could have some surgery and become independent. After many tears, I finally made my first appointment in December. I finally got a break through in my emotions and my anger turned to Joy! I finally got peace. For the first time, after 11 months of agony, I gave my fears to God and am experiencing His Joy in the midst of watching Philip, my beloved slowly pass away in much pain. It was always easier to give my health and our son, Joshua, to God having Phil by my side. But to take my caregiver and the love of my life from me, it took much anguish and struggling to say to God, I still love you and enjoy his peace and Joy and start counting my blessings! God reminded me that I was not going to be alone! He sent family and friends to love on me and help me through this!
Keep calm! Carry on! This has been my motto after reading "You'll get through this: Hope and help for your turbulent times" by Max Lucado.
You'll get through this. It won't be painless. It won't be quick. But God will use this mess for good. Don't be foolish or naive. But don't despair either. Keep calm! Carry on!
Phil loved 2 things. Eagles and flashlights. Our kitchen is filled with eagles and he always carried a flashlight. Phil's two favorite scriptures were:
31 But they that wait upon the Lord shall renew their strength; they shall mount up with wings as eagles; they shall run, and not be weary; and they shall walk, and not faint. (Isaiah 40:31 King James Version, KJV)
15 Neither do people light a lamp and put it under a bowl. Instead they put it on its stand, and it gives light to everyone in the house. 16 In the same way, let your light shine before others, that they may see your good deeds and glorify your Father in heaven. (Matthew 5:15-16 New International Version, NIV)
Phil would encourage you to put your trust in God today and start building a relationship with him. Listen to God. Read his Word. Trust and be obedient to him. Love Him with all your heart, soul, and mind. And love your neighbor.
Don't worry about all the horizontal problems of life. Trust God. Experience God's love, peace, and Joy in the midst of any adversity! Love God and love your neighbor.
You'll get through this. It won't be painless. It won't be quick. But God will use this mess for good. Don't be foolish or naïve. But don't despair either. Keep calm! Carry on! Be a lighthouse and let your light shine and soar like an eagle. Keep it Vertical!
With love for my wonderful husband and best friend,
Truda Kruger
Link - https://www.facebook.com/truda.kruger/posts/10218716682297408
==========================================================================
Phil served a career of 22 years as a Civil Engineer in the US Air Force, serving in the Vietnam War Era, Grenada/Panama, and Desert Storm and Shield/ Persian Gulf War, retiring in 1994 as a Master Sergeant. He was married to the former Truda Gilbert, and she survives him.
They moved to Farwell in 1995 and he had worked as a Plumber/Pipefitter with Terry Norris Plumbing. He was a member of the First Baptist Church of Clare where he had served as a Trustee and was involved in the Children's Ministries. He enjoyed Shooting Sports, Marksmanship, anything involving Nature or being Outdoors, and riding bicycles.
Phil is survived by his wife Truda, his mother, Genevieve Kruger of Rosebush, his children, Michael (Jennifer) Kruger of Lansing, William Kruger of Oregon, Matthew (Taralyn) Kruger of Kalamazoo, Joshua (Angie) Schomp of Greensborough, NC, Sarah (Marcelin) Nikuvwayo of Lansing, and Zachary (Marcela) Schomp of Farwell, and six dear grandchildren. Also surviving are his siblings, Nancy (Terry ) Norris, Christine (Lynn) Prout, Dan (Kathie) Kruger, David (Delia) Kruger, Mary (Ferrin) Williams, Deborah (Joe) Allard, and Sarah (Steve) Sparkes.
A Celebration of Phil's Life was held on Saturday, March 30, at the First Baptist Church of Clare, Clare, Mi. with Pastor Douglas Blackwell officiating. Burial was in Surrey Cemetery.
Phil loved pocket knives and flashlights. His family requests that everyone bring a flashlight to his service.
Stephenson Wyman Funeral Home
Truda Kruger remarks at the Memorial Service for husband Philip Kruger 2019-03-30
Truda Kruger
March 30, 2019
Truda's remarks to celebrate the life of her dear husband and best friend, Philip Mark Kruger.
At the 'Celebration of Life' – Held today at the Memorial Service for Philip Mark Kruger; at 12:00 PM, Saturday, March 30, 2019, at the First Baptist Church of Clare;
Clare, Michigan.
Truda's remarks:
Joy in the midst of adversity
This is a message Phil wanted me to share with you all.
You may think it is impossible to have Joy during an adversity.
Most people may think that either you have Joy or Sorrow, but not possible to have both emotions at the same time. This is not humanly possible. But with God, all things are possible.
Who is God? What is your relationship with God? These are 2 questions that Phil and I would like to explore with you today.
Who is God when we are happy? Who is God when you are angry and bitter?
God says he is I AM. The Alpha and Omega, Almighty, Bright and Morning Star, Comforter, Christ, Deliverer, Emmanuel, Forgiver, God, Healer, Hope, Jesus, Jehovah, King of Kings, Lord, Messiah, Overcomer, Perfect Sacrifice, Redeemer, Savior, Truth, Way, and Yahweh.
Do you really believe that God is all these qualities? All the time!
What is your relationship with God? Philip knew God and shared his relationship with God to all he met.
Do you know God? Most people are familiar with the name of God. Some may even attend church occasionally and read some scripture on Sunday morning. Then go home and get busy and get consumed with life until they meet back in church again or have a tragedy... Why does it take a tragedy to start building a relationship with God? And begin to think about loving God and loving others?
In Matthew 7:21-23 in the Bible Jesus talks about when we die and want to enter into heaven. He tells us: 21 "Not everyone who says to me, 'Lord, Lord,' will enter the kingdom of heaven, but the one who does the will of my Father who is in heaven. 22 On that day many will say to me, 'Lord, Lord, did we not prophesy in your name, and cast out demons in your name, and do many mighty works in your name?' 23 And then will I declare to them, 'I never knew you; depart from me, you workers of lawlessness.'
In light of this passage, what does it mean, I never knew you?
How do you get to know somebody? You may know our president because you have seen him on TV and read a lot about him and perhaps you went to a rally and shook his hand, But, does he know you?
How do you build a relationship with someone?
In a marriage relationship, first you date and spend a lot of time with each other and think about each other often during the day. Then after the wedding, either you continue to nurture this relationship, or you grow apart. When a tragedy comes along, Mary Free Bed Rehab told Phil and I that over 90% of relationships dissolve when severe health issues arise. This is tragic!
Phil has had a couple of mentors that helped him to be the loving care giver he was. June and Bud Jenkins and Ken and Harriet Beard. Many of doctors have told me without the loving care that Phil gave me during the many, many trials I have had, I would not be here today. He always was very meticulous about my care, and that everything was sterile and done right. He was always fussing over me. I love how he loved me. Phil has since been a mentor to our children and grandchildren who have great compassion for me. They watched their Father care for their Mother so tenderly. I am so grateful for the care our children have given us.
I want to share with you how God taught me how to have Joy in our many adversities. God asked me many times as tragedy hit our lives, Truda, do you still love me?
When our son Joshua was young, we learned he had neurofibrotosis and if he didn't have some emergency surgeries, we would lose him. And during the surgeries, he could become paralyzed or die. Joshua had many long and dangerous surgeries throughout Junior high and Highly school. We learned to trust God with our son. And yes, throughout the entire time it was easy to trust God and Love him because I had Phil by my side helping to remind me that God was with us.
Then about 19 years ago, I had an accident and became paralyzed. I distinctly recall God asking me again if I still loved Him. I had no tears, or angry thoughts. I just once again knew I could trust my loving Heavenly Father, ABBA Father, to take care of me. This was made easier with Phil by my side as a caregiver.
Then I had another accident the following year when I broke my neck and was in a halo for a few months. I was asked again by God; do you still love me? The answer was of course yes again, knowing Phil was by my side.
It has always been easy to trust God with Phil by my side.
Now when Phil got cancer, it was a different story. For the first time, when God asked me if I still loved Him, I got angry, confused, and cried a lot and questioned God's judgement of taking Phil before me. Who would take care of me? Both of our mentors who took care of their wives out lived their disabled wives. I was always so sure God would likewise take me first.
Phil and I earnestly sought out different agencies who could care for my physical needs. There were none.
This was when my Dad started reminding me to Meditate more with God. I was so used to talking TO God..... but Dad would ask me if I was LISTENING to God. This has always been a problem for me all my life..... I would love to talk with people and when they start to talk, I would often get thoughts in my mind and interrupt them before I lost my thoughts. So, I decided to start Listening to God and listen more patiently with others. Throughout the summer months I would spend up to an hour or so during the day being still and listening to God. Slowly, by fall, I began to hear God's answer to my care. If I got brave, and trusted God, I could have some surgery and become independent. After many tears, I finally made my first appointment in December. I finally got a break through in my emotions and my anger turned to Joy! I finally got peace. For the first time, after 11 months of agony, I gave my fears to God and am experiencing His Joy in the midst of watching Philip, my beloved slowly pass away in much pain. It was always easier to give my health and our son, Joshua, to God having Phil by my side. But to take my caregiver and the love of my life from me, it took much anguish and struggling to say to God, I still love you and enjoy his peace and Joy and start counting my blessings! God reminded me that I was not going to be alone! He sent family and friends to love on me and help me through this!
Keep calm! Carry on! This has been my motto after reading "You'll get through this: Hope and help for your turbulent times" by Max Lucado.
You'll get through this. It won't be painless. It won't be quick. But God will use this mess for good. Don't be foolish or naive. But don't despair either. Keep calm! Carry on!
Phil loved 2 things. Eagles and flashlights. Our kitchen is filled with eagles and he always carried a flashlight. Phil's two favorite scriptures were:
31 But they that wait upon the Lord shall renew their strength; they shall mount up with wings as eagles; they shall run, and not be weary; and they shall walk, and not faint. (Isaiah 40:31 King James Version, KJV)
15 Neither do people light a lamp and put it under a bowl. Instead they put it on its stand, and it gives light to everyone in the house. 16 In the same way, let your light shine before others, that they may see your good deeds and glorify your Father in heaven. (Matthew 5:15-16 New International Version, NIV)
Phil would encourage you to put your trust in God today and start building a relationship with him. Listen to God. Read his Word. Trust and be obedient to him. Love Him with all your heart, soul, and mind. And love your neighbor.
Don't worry about all the horizontal problems of life. Trust God. Experience God's love, peace, and Joy in the midst of any adversity! Love God and love your neighbor.
You'll get through this. It won't be painless. It won't be quick. But God will use this mess for good. Don't be foolish or naïve. But don't despair either. Keep calm! Carry on! Be a lighthouse and let your light shine and soar like an eagle. Keep it Vertical!
With love for my wonderful husband and best friend,
Truda Kruger
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