Henry “Ray” Bender Jr.

Birth: 10 Nov 1946
Schoharie, Schoharie County, New York, USA
Death: 1 Feb 1999 (aged 52)
Rock Hill, York County, South Carolina, USA
Burial: Cremated, Ashes scattered. Specifically: Ashes scattered in Buzzards Bay Harbor in Massachusetts Add to Map
Memorial ID: 145990914 View Source

Loving Husband, Father and Grandfather. Avid fisherman and outdoorsman. His ashes were scattered at one of his favorite fishing spots in Buzzards Bay near the Cape Cod canal.

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Helen Oliver Bender

1905–1992

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Diane Carol Barnaby Bender Gary

1954–2017 (m. 1982)

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Diane Carol Barnaby Bender Gary

Theodore Frank Bender

George Melvin "Mickie" Bender

Helen A. Bender Nelson

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Theodore Frank Bender

George Melvin "Mickie" Bender

Helen A. Bender Nelson

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