The little forgotten cemetery is her grandfather's; now gone from his site.
See: http://www.findagrave.com/cgi-bin/fg.cgi?page=cr&GRid=28650893&CRid=36388&
Parents
Albert Harris (or Hill) Ponder 1866 – 1931
Margaret C McCraney 1867 – 1899

1930 United States Federal Census
Name: Edith M Pelham
Gender: Female
Birth Year: abt 1888
Birthplace: Alabama
Race: White
Home in 1930: Precinct 56, Jefferson, Alabama
Marital Status: Widowed
Relation to Head of House: Head
Father's Birthplace: Alabama
Mother's Birthplace: Alabama
Household Members:
Name Age
Edith M Pelham 42
James H Pelham 17
Cecil W Pelham 15
Frances E Pelham 13

Children:
James Hart Pelham 1912 – 1982
Cecil Warren Pelham 1914 – 1983
Frances Edith Pelham Colbert 1916 – 2004


1940 United States Federal Census
Name: Edith Pelham
Age: 52
Estimated Birth Year: abt 1888
Gender: Female
Race: White
Birthplace: Georgia
Marital Status: Widowed
Relation to Head of House: Sister
Home in 1940: Birmingham, Jefferson, Alabama
Street: Fourth Terrace West
House Number: 1525
Inferred Residence in 1935: Birmingham, Jefferson, Alabama
Residence in 1935: Same House
Resident on farm in 1935: No
Sheet Number: 7A
Father's Birthplace: Georgia
Mother's Birthplace: Alabama
Woman Marriages: 1
Woman Age at First Marriage: 18
Number of Children Ever Born: 4
Attended School or College: No
Highest Grade Completed: Elementary school, 5th grade
Weeks Worked in 1939: 0
Income: 0
Income Other Sources: Yes
Native Language: English
Veteran: No
Veteran Father Dead: No
Military service: No
Social Security Number: No
Usual Occupation: None
Neighbors:
Household Members:
Name Age
Narmon E Ponder 44
[Norman Ellis Ponder is her little brother]
Ruth Ponder 42
Norman E Ponder 18
Marion Ponder 15
Edith Pelham 52